When the house is in complete chaos, when the dirty dishes are all piled up in the sink, when the floor is in need of a good sweeping, when the dirty laundry's threatening to cave on me, when the kids are being their hyperactive selves, and when I desperately need to rest and catch a few precious winks, how I wished I had a nanny, a house helper, someone who can keep me company while I run this crazy household..

And then she came out of nowhere,unexpected but certainly a welcome sight. Little did I know, it was short-lived. Yesterday, nanny no.3, Kokei packed her belongings and left me, Rai and the kids forever before i even had the chance to take her picture, snap a photo of her in action and blog about her super nanny ways. Super nanny-- what a word. At least that's what I thought she was. She only stayed for 5 days. When I think about it, puh-lease what a joke! A super nanny should have stayed forever and not make up lame excuses just so she could leave. Before she even started her job as my kids' stay in nanny, she used to text me relentlessly, begging for a job, begging to take her in. The first day, she was a nanny in action. She was up by 5 am, prepared breakfast for her groggy bosses and basically do all the work. Rai and I used to exchange approving winks and pokes. It was like shouting, "We finally found the ONE!!". The 2nd day, I wondered why the fridge seemed empty when the last time I remembered, it was full of food clutter.. LOTS of food clutter. And then later on, I realized, she gobbled all the food. So, okay.. maybe she was that HUNGRY! The next day, she prepared dried fish and fried eggs for Rai and I at breakfast. I blurted out, "I think there's still some of that yummy food we had last night. I think we should reheat it." But no, it was long gone.. Guess who got the best share? Yep, it was her. It bothers me that she zoned on my kids' food, snacks whatever without even asking permission too. So on her 3rd day, while I was at our room and she was outside watching TV, she texted me asking for a salary advance. It was a big amount and at that time, Khym was still at the hospital. I had no plans of giving out money, even salary advances at that moment. I just thought it wasn't fair asking for a large amount of money when she only 3 days old. But she insisted,and I agreed to give her half of what she asked for. She also asked for permission to go home for 2 days and asked me if I could give her clothes. It felt like I was Miss Charity worker. She was back after 2 days but super nanny was no longer super nanny. The 4th day, she watched TV the whole night and woke up late. So while hubby and I were up and about the next day, she was dozing and snoring her heart out. The 5th day,while I was in our room with the kids, she texted me again telling me that her mom wanted her to go home because she,Kokei,was sick. I thought, why would she be sick at our home when she wasn't slaving like normal nannies? But when people want to leave I let them go because that's what they want anyway. I thanked her for her "precious"time and I thought that was it. But then, she texted me again asking for clothes (the 2nd time), fare back home and extra money to pay her debt and I thought, charity work ends right then and there. And so she left. I'm just glad she did!!!I just think she took advantage of my kindness. But then, I could not act like one strict momma. I was scared she'd take it on my kids while we were away.
Ever since I had my boys, she was nanny no. 3. Nanny no. 1 stayed for 4 years and left to pursue her college studies. We had no right to stop her from doing so. She had to follow her dreams. We also had slight issues with her. But so far with the 3, this one was closer to my kids and stayed longer. Nanny no. 2 just like no. 3, only stayed for 5 days and left . But not until she broke the gas stove knobs and made my home a damn place for chitchats with her other nanny friend. We also caught her leaving our place to go to her friend and leaving the door unlocked while we were away. And so off she went. I just could not tolerate nanny losers.
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| Khym with his nanny (nanny no.1) who literally grew up with us |
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| Kliven at 8 months on Nanny no. 1's lap |
Looking back from a string of nannies from my childhood, I only loved one. She was my super nanny and still is. But I guess I wasn't so lucky with my quest for now. I wish my kids have these people as nannies:
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| *Nanny Mcphee scares me though |
So now, when the house is in complete mess, I let it stay that way. And clean up only after all the kids are asleep or taking their naps. I'm tired of my nanny wishes and ending up with nanny losahs. But if ever, there's a good nanny out there, maybe she's worth waiting for. So the perfect nanny search is on. Wish me luck!